When marriage becomes "inapropriate"

So, at what point does a relationship between a married man and a woman become "inappropriate"?

If you will ask this question to many couples out there, one out of top answers would definitely "intimate affair" (being cheated) and if this happens--- it's totally disastrous and a break-up or separation ends here.

But as the writer's case, this might be the ultimate level. If you gonna ask yourself, " how do you wanna live for the entire days of your lives?
...To live with your "loveones" without pride & dignity? Giving up your dreams just to reach her/him? Living up alone as if just like you're not being with a partner?... Crying all night and smile at day just to save the relationship for the kids, friends and relatives believing in your ties?...and the last, believing the true Marriage Knot should be binded 'till death do they part!
---- whew, I know everyone still believes in the word 'love and relationship' that's why we keep surviving and sacrifing.

But are all these worth? For me, saving your lives is the most important in the world. It's just like asking yourself , what is the most important for you? If you want to save your life earlier what you can do is the best. Act Now, and be changed. I mean life is short, it is a free way decision on how we live and how we choose. We can choose our own destiny and live well. If you are feeling unhappy with your relationship, why you stay & get sacrifice if you can choose to be happy. All of us deserves to be happy. Don't let this man gets you miserable or wait him/her to be cheated on you before you see the best path for you.

I, myself having miserable for every days. I guess the relationship goes fluctuating. We see each other every day but it feels like empty. There's no other affair with somebody. It's just like on how to work with each other couple's behavior. I am totally fall out of the way, I give up for what I usually do. At least now, I expect more something from him, things that he can probably do to work out things. But it's nothing. And its funny, we've been in a relationship for 9yrs now, long distance for 8yrs and now living on the same roof. We supposedly make so much talks especially for those misunderstanding that we had. Luckily, we both ended up of silence and slept separately. No discussion, no talks, no sorries, no compromising at all for many days. That's how we work on problems. Practically both have their own needs, I am calling for many things-- support, respect as a wife, and be my real partner.

As mentioned above, I even ask myself what I wanna do for the rest of my life? I guess I know the answer already.

2009 Trendy Summer Short Hair Cuts

It is summer and the weather becoming hotter now. If you want to get a new haircut, it's time to choose a good hairstyle and bye-bye to a long curly hair. See few of my favorite trendy haircuts.

Edgy color and choppy layers is toned town by straight layers with side-swept fringe. Apply a straightening balm to damp strands and blow-dry smooth, flipping ends out for a wind-swept look. Polish off the style by flat-ironing layers even sleeker.

Angular Bob
I think these cuts DO NOT work well with anyone and everyone. They look best on women with very fine/petite facial features and an angular cheekbone.

Rock Doll Hair Cuts

The famous Rock Doll cut, by Pierre Mollicone for L'Oréal Professionel.
Katie Holmes has proven to be a true trendsetter for her sexy hairstyles. Katie Holmes is one of those lucky girls with a perfectly oval face and supremely delicate features.
Easy pop short blonde hair with beautiful bangs...

This is a meduim length hairstyle trends...so femine and perfect.
To give a pixie a hipper feel, hair is snipped asymmetrically. The longer side of the cut is directed forward to veil short, cury bangs that are achoed by flirty spikes at the far back of the crown.

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RP Election 2010 poll automation to push through

Smartmatic and TIM won the automation contract with the Commission on Elections after submitting a bid of P7.2 billion for the procurement of 82,000 machines using the Precinct Count Optical Scan (PCOS) technology.

Smartmatic and TIM met at the Comelec last July 3 and they announced that the consortium will proceed with the automation of the next election.


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But this brings to mind the question, “How reliable can the computerized (automated) election system be?” knowing that anything electronic is much easier to falsify. Will the election finally put an end to the “dagdag-bawas” dilemma in our nation’s election results? Or, will the automation process make it much easier to fake election returns?

Let see the “trial-and-error” results in our election process begin on August 11, 2008.

Explore Your Blog Corner

When I start to make a blog, every single day my mind won't stop thinking how to optimize my blogs and get into the best part of traffic. I am very envy to my friend's blog who got a lot of traffic and have full of ideas making his blog perfect. He even helped me to revise one of my blog's lay-out to make more appealing and interesting. Done perfect!
But back of my mind, how he can get those ideas--lay-outs, widgets, counters, etc. I am new in blogging so I have no enough idea how to compose everything on it.

So I explore...explore...explore...until I found this very informative and useful website.
http://www.bloggertricks.com. I followed all the links, start doing and that's it. I enjoyed every topics that she had. I start to learn and make fun! And as the progress of my site, I've found increase of my website traffic. Thank you Kranthi for your SUPER HERO blog contents.

This is the most helpful topic of Kranthi that took me in heaven...
Submitting your blog to Blog directories

Other related topics:

• Wow! How fast Google Crawling this site!! less than a min!
• Adsense Inside or Between blog posts.. learn how..
• Adding Scrolling text(marquee)-examples
• How to add Clickable Pictures to your blog
• Adding Paypal Donate button to your blog

How To Photograph People when Traveling

Sometimes traveling from different places captures good subject to the photographer. It develops to be imaginative in different angles they seen. Here's are few tips on how to photograph people when traveling.

1. Choose your Background - I’ve already talked about making shots contextual but one great way to do this is to think about what’s in the background behind the people you’re photographing. Ideally you want something that’s not too distracting but that adds to the context of the place you’re shooting in. Another technique for shooting shots of people that ignores the ‘contextual’ rule is to find a brightly lit position with a dark background. This can really help the face you’re shooting to pop out and capture the viewer’s attention.
2. Fill your Frame - This means either getting in nice and close to the person or having and using a good zoom lens.
3. Go for natural (un-posed shots) - While sometimes the posed shots can work quite well they can also lack a certain authenticity. Photograph your subject doing something from their normal daily life. At work, in a marketplace, at home, feeding their child, crossing the street etc.
4. Add another subject - Adding a second person into an image takes a photo into a different place. No long is the shot just about a person and their environment but it somehow becomes relational. The viewer of the photo begins to wonder about the relationship and a new layer is added to your shot.
5. Photograph a variety of people - Quite often it’s the shots of people dressed in national costume that tend to attract photographers when traveling. While these shots can be very effective I wonder if they are always really representative of a culture. Quite often these people have dressed up especially for a show or tourist attraction and the majority of people in that country look quite different. Mix up the types, gender and ages of people that you take photos of and you can end up with a very effective collage of faces of a country.
6. Arrange an extended photo shoot - This goes against the nature of most travel photography which is usually very fast and spontaneous - but on one or two occasions when I’ve traveled I’ve had opportunity to sit with a person for a longer period of time and photograph them in a more extended manner. This enables your photographs to take a on a story telling nature and can lead to some wonderful sequences of shots using different photographic techniques, lenses and situations to shoot in.
7. Get Candid - keep your camera to the eye for taking those spontaneous shots between the more posed ones. It’s amazing what images that you can find when the person isn’t ‘ready’ for you to shoot (or just after you’ve taken a shot). These shots often include people interacting with others or expressing true emotion. I find setting my camera to continuous shooting mode (where it will shoot burts of frames quickly) often leads to some wonderful candid shots.
8. Lens Choice - I’m a big believer in that virtually any lens can take a good portrait shot if you work to it’s strengths. Having said that, some lenses do tend to lend themselves to great portraits. I find that a focal length between 50mm and 135mm is a good range to work with. Going for wide angle lenses can also produce interesting shots but you will often find that they do distort your subject’s face a little (sometimes this is very effective). Choosing a longer focal length can be useful for putting your subjects a little more at ease.

Find related topics/links: How to take good travel photos

Candid Wedding Photography: A Perfect Way to Capture Real Moments

Nowadays, people are much excited for their photos captured in candid shots. They said, it is more real, creative, fun and captured the real moments of the event. In wedding photography, couple's often prefer candid even to formal groups. But how would the professional photographers will capture this in a perfect and fast way of shooting their own cameras?

The term "candid" is often misunderstood. True candids, which are taken without the knowledge of those being featured, can be successful at weddings, but it is difficult to always achieve a decent picture of everyone in this style when so many people are together. The way around this is to arrange people first and then shoot candidly as they chat together. This will take a lot of the formality out of picture, and it will give people something to do rather than looking at the camera.

TIPS: Candid pictures are much more easily achieved by using a 35mm camera and zoom lens so that you can stand a long way from your subjects and take pictures which they will not probably noticing you are taking.

To take candid pictures you have to have a good eye for detail and good reactions to shoot at the right moment. There are two distinct approaches to candids. One is to hide and shoot from a distance and the other is the in-your-face approach. If you decide the distant method is more your style you'll need a camera with a long lens (telephoto). All lenses are measured by their focal length. If you have a 35mm SLR or compact camera and use a lens with a focal length longer than 50mm its classed as a telephoto.

Below are a number of tips to help photographers improve their ‘candid’ photography. Please note that these tips are not about taking sneaky, voyeuristic or true paparazzi shots (ie photographing people without their permission) but rather about how to add a more candid feel to the shots you take of people that you know.

Here's The 11 Tips for Better Candid Photography

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Try to watch this link--wedding video photos taken by one of my favorite photographer Joseph Kohn. Most were captured in candid style...

http://www.iqphoto.com/previews/09152007/index.html

Blogging Has Make Sense

Hello Everyone, I'm back! What motivates me to write again? well a friend of mine inspires me a lot in writing back and make a blog. Since right now I am a full time Mom and has nothing so much to do after 9pm so why don't make it a habit I said. Writing is the best thing to do I guess.

Wow, the last time I wrote a blog was a year ago and I was taking care of my first daughter who was 10mos old then and now, she is almost 2. And two months after, she will definitely going to be an awesome blooming little girl. And I am really excited waiting for that biggest day!

And blogging again? do you have any idea why I put my header design as a preggy mom? oh-duh, my blog topic is not more about family, relationships between a daughter and a mom - but,...shhh, I am having a second baby. Imagine that, every time I write I always taking care of my kids. Hahaha, this blog always reminds my life with the kids, how do they laugh, how do they interact with me, the kisses, the jumping and the funny faces they make in every single day would reminds me and nothing to compare with anybody else for all the people of the entire earth!

Kidding aside. After encouraging me to pursue this, I come up to think how to start again my blogging. How's to be the lay-out to be more impressive, making the contents to build high traffic web, how the Adsense work, refreshing back the HTML ideas, and the best question is- HOW TO MAKE MONEY IN BLOGGING?
And that interests me most...",

Honestly, it took me a week before I starting up this again. I do refreshing myself with the HTML, studying the best contents, choosing the best lay-outs to be more pleasing, but anyways, appearance or lay-out is not the important BUT the CONTENTS itself must work.
Later part of my blog, will share you about this interest, and my PERSONAL interests like photography, home designing, arts & crafting, traveling, fashions, and other things that we can share in common.

I post few photos of my sweetie, she's smart, funny, and loving child that who inspires me and gives me a doze of strength in every day. The reason I live for.

This blog segment of mine is not a way of making money, but its a way showing off to all mothers to hang on and be strong as they can be. The kids are with us, their smiles, kisses and hug would mean a lot and thru this, our life is extended and become endless.

I may say my life is full of bumps, mountain and hills either, but when my 2yro daughter come to me rubbing my hair and saying, "Tatet Mom?" (Tagalog word of Bakit or Why in English)... that would make sense of your life, my heart felt and just kissed my daughter and wondering -How lucky I am to be this child...