So, at what point does a relationship between a married man and a woman become "inappropriate"?
If you will ask this question to many couples out there, one out of top answers would definitely "intimate affair" (being cheated) and if this happens--- it's totally disastrous and a break-up or separation ends here.
But as the writer's case, this might be the ultimate level. If you gonna ask yourself, " how do you wanna live for the entire days of your lives?
...To live with your "loveones" without pride & dignity? Giving up your dreams just to reach her/him? Living up alone as if just like you're not being with a partner?... Crying all night and smile at day just to save the relationship for the kids, friends and relatives believing in your ties?...and the last, believing the true Marriage Knot should be binded 'till death do they part!
---- whew, I know everyone still believes in the word 'love and relationship' that's why we keep surviving and sacrifing.
But are all these worth? For me, saving your lives is the most important in the world. It's just like asking yourself , what is the most important for you? If you want to save your life earlier what you can do is the best. Act Now, and be changed. I mean life is short, it is a free way decision on how we live and how we choose. We can choose our own destiny and live well. If you are feeling unhappy with your relationship, why you stay & get sacrifice if you can choose to be happy. All of us deserves to be happy. Don't let this man gets you miserable or wait him/her to be cheated on you before you see the best path for you.
I, myself having miserable for every days. I guess the relationship goes fluctuating. We see each other every day but it feels like empty. There's no other affair with somebody. It's just like on how to work with each other couple's behavior. I am totally fall out of the way, I give up for what I usually do. At least now, I expect more something from him, things that he can probably do to work out things. But it's nothing. And its funny, we've been in a relationship for 9yrs now, long distance for 8yrs and now living on the same roof. We supposedly make so much talks especially for those misunderstanding that we had. Luckily, we both ended up of silence and slept separately. No discussion, no talks, no sorries, no compromising at all for many days. That's how we work on problems. Practically both have their own needs, I am calling for many things-- support, respect as a wife, and be my real partner.
As mentioned above, I even ask myself what I wanna do for the rest of my life? I guess I know the answer already.
